Church Services, Meetings, and Gatherings

Church Services

Church ServicesUntil we deal directly with issues like the difference between church services, meetings, and gatherings the organized traditional systems will pass us off as a fad. We are all in agreement that Father God is transitioning His church for optimal effectiveness and impact in this darkened world. The problem comes when we make adjustments to how we do things without knowing where or why the Lord is moving us. Needless to say, for many it has been a long and difficult road. Our greatest challenges have come from our belief that we must be doing things right because it’s what we were taught in a seminary, it’s the way we have seen the church operate over our years as believers, or probably the worst, it’s what everyone else is doing all around us today.

Many leaders attempt to make the adjustments in view of church growth only to face an angry congregation that refuses to make the needed changes. When leaders’ pocketbooks are challenged, they simply succumb to the pressure and they return to the status quo to answer the wants of the people. It takes a mature man/woman of God, who fully trusts God, to stand his or her ground in this generation. It is for this reason the Lord never intended that the one-man rule of priest or pastor be the modus-operandi (pattern) of His Church. A plurality of elders as a working five-fold presbytery is the safety net for the advancement of the Kingdom under the Holy Spirit’s direction.

The correct assessment of the problem of “how we do church” will answer the question of why we are not having the necessary impact on our society. “We have never done it this way”, is still our greatest enemy. This certainly holds true when we discuss the definitions and the purposes of services, meetings, and gatherings of the church of the Lord Jesus Christ. This is not an attempt to stereotype, but rather a desire to have us re-evaluate what we do and why we do it. Certainly wonderful exceptions exist to the things I am sharing. If that’s you praise the Lord for the mercy you have received.

Church Services, Meetings, and Gatherings

The Church Service

  1. Origin- The present-day church service has its roots with the Roman Emperor Constantine around 300 AD. Most of what is done in services today is rooted in the Old Testament examples of the Canaanite gods. Even the majority of non-denominational services are following the outline of Catholic liturgies performed and created during the Dark Ages.
  1. Purpose- Ask ninety-nine percent of church attenders, and they will tell you that they are coming to worship* God. The belief being God needs my one hour and twenty minute “worship” once a week. Many will tell you that they are coming to get a “Word.” The belief being that the preacher-man/clergy has a word for me. God is in the Church building (Holy Place) and it is there where He deals with His people. So goes the famous saying: “I am going to church.”
  1. Method- Members attend where their church membership is registered.  They attend there because they are in agreement with set doctrines, their parents went there, they like the pastor, they like the music, their kids enjoy meeting their friends there, they are of the same race, they speak the same language, it’s a large congregation, and/or it will be good for their business or love life. They attend a building. They attend for a scheduled time on a special day. 
  1. Procedure- An elite, hired ministerial professional, or staff, will “minister” to the spectators who are waiting to receive “ministry” from them. The bystanders are allowed to agree by saying Amen or to “get into the Spirit” at the prescribed times as the clergy ministers to them. You are allowed varied responses to emotionalism or “the Spirit” based on the general belief and desires of the local leadership. In general, don’t move from where you are seated or interrupt the ministry from the front. The members, or spectators, have the same chance to participate “from the front” (Holy Place) as do fans have of playing “on the field” during a game. The front is usually higher, roped off, or surrounded by banisters so the laity (that’s you) understands that the front is for clergy.
  1. Results- After some time those in the front will signal that God has been worshipped enough,** the people have been given the Word for the week, and now they can come near to the front to get ministry. Depending on the denomination, you will be invited to “get communion,” repent, and/or receive an impartation (something he has and you need) from the elite hired ministerial professional. Time will be up, and as you go to your car you may contact your friends to find out what restaurant they are going to, or you may just drive home never to see the other members again until next week. You punched the clock, driven by duty and obligation. God is satisfied and you have no responsibility to the other members.

Acts 17:24-25 God, who made the world and everything in it, since He is Lord of heaven and earth, does not dwell in temples made with hands. 25 Nor is He worshiped with men’s hands, as though He needed anything, since He gives to all life, breath, and all things. NKJV

*  I could not locate one instance in the New Testament where the apostles discuss worshipping God as the reason for their gatherings. God does not need, nor request, our “doings.” Instead, He is pleased by our 24/7 lifestyle of “being.” Service denotes religious works.

** See Steve Crosby’s new articles and book here

The Meeting

          1. Origin- The recent use of the word meeting has been popularized by the House Church Movement. Mostly it includes those who have come to understand there is no such thing as a clergy – laity division and that the Lord Jesus Christ put an end to works, on the cross of Calvary 2000 years ago. Many Christians have left, and are leaving, the traditional organized church for these less formal meetings.

          2. Purpose- Each believer is a part of Christ’s body so their participation is essential to get “all of Christ.” Believers attend the meeting and are committed to the meeting because Christ is there. The central focus becomes the meeting and little participation happens outside of that. Some of the original proponents of the meeting model still look down on serving food and too much fellowship as it interrupts “Christ” in the meeting.

         3. Method- The meeting paradigm hangs most of its methodology on this one verse.
1 Cor 14:26 How (WHY) is it then, brethren? when ye come together, every one of you hath a psalm, hath a doctrine, hath a tongue, hath a revelation, hath an interpretation. Let all things be done unto edifying.* KJV

         4. Procedure- Each meeting participant is expected to share the Christ in them. Usually participants sit in a circle in a living room and you share when it comes around to your turn, although the proponents of the meeting model claim to be following the Holy Spirit. Men deal with men’s issues and women deal with women’s issues in separate business meetings. This model has few women if any in leadership. Proponents of this model push for participants to live near to each other to the point of requesting that all families move into the same subdivision to have community.**

         5. Results- Meetings are said to be “good” when everyone shares concerning “their deeper life in Christ.” The proponents of the meeting teach that Christ is central, but in practice the meeting is central. Little is done for the poor or anyone else outside the meeting. Relationships among the participants are weak, although it’s a step up from those who attend services. The groups are usually small, and even though they probably don’t mean to, they tend to have an air of pride and elitism.

* The only problem with this interpretation is that if it is properly placed in context, Paul is not advocating for equal voice, but rebuking for over use of tongues and disorder in the gathering of the ekklesia because of all wanting to share at the same time.

** While some small aspects of community can be helped by physically living near to one another ,the real thread of community is the love of the brethren not physical proximity.

The Gathering

       1. Origin- When I think of the word gathering I am reminded of the upper room. A family of people from different walks of life and different cultures coming together to enjoy each other’s company. The gathering is not exclusive, so the small can sit in equal stature with the great. Agreement of doctrine is not a prerequisite so all can come together and enjoy the love of God in the fellowship of His people. The New Testament is full of examples of small and large gatherings of His Church.

        2. Purpose- God is love. In a gathering everything is about relationships. Making new ones and strengthening old ones. Everything is founded on the love of the brethren. Saints come together moved by the Spirit. Saints come together because they love each other. They are as passionate about the gathering of His people, as is the Lord.

Matt 26:29 But I say to you, I will not drink of this fruit of the vine from now on until that day when I drink it new with you in My Father’s kingdom.”NKJV

With this type of passion they proclaim the greatest message that could ever be preached. The world has no answer for the unity and the joy found in the gathering of His people.

       3. Method- Gatherings are heavenly appointments created by the Holy Spirit and designed by the Creator before the beginning of time. These gatherings happen daily and are 24/7 in nature. Sometimes there are made up of just two or three saints, and sometimes it’s a broader group depending on how the Lord is building His Church. As one North Texas sister said to me “we gather regularly, but not routinely”. In the 21st century community and relationships are not dependent on geographical constraints thanks to technology. The reason geography is specified in the scripture, according to Steve Crosby is because in their day, it DEFINED THE BOUNDARIES OF RELATIONSHIP.  I do not believe the geographical descriptions in scripture are PRESCRIBING what MUST be, but RATHER DESCRIBING, what was in their world. Shoot, most people spent their whole lives not going any further than 5 miles from where they lived.  Today you can travel 5,000 miles and arrive at a gathering of God’s people and feel like you have known them forever. In fact you have, because the same Christ and the same Spirit has been living and operating in you since you were born from above.

       4. Procedure- Since love is the foundation, all teaching and ministry flows spontaneously. Flowing with Holy Spirit is a gift forgotten in today’s “church” services and meetings. People are full of the knowledge of Scripture but they know not The Word made flesh. Claims of “disorder” cannot be founded when The Head is in charge of His church. It may be out of YOUR mind, but it is not out of His. It is very common to see the Lord bring all to focus on one thing and then break out like popcorn all over the room using His vessels as He wishes. Like appendages on His hands, five-fold mature brothers and sisters move through a gathering giving form, counsel, and prayer where needed. Since all the Glory goes to the Lord Jesus Christ, there are no titles used or positions to divide, simply functions to (EQUIP) assist the Body to mature and grow in His likeness. Scripture clearly outlines the process of the Master Weaver when His people gather.

Eph 4:16 from whom the whole body, joined and knit together by what every joint supplies, according to the effective working by which every part does its share, causes growth of the body for the edifying of itself in love. NKJV

Col 2:2 that their hearts may be encouraged, being knit together in love, and attaining to all riches of the full assurance of understanding, to the knowledge of the mystery of God, both of the Father and of Christ, NKJV

Col 2:19 and not holding fast to the Head, from whom all the body, nourished and knit together by joints and ligaments, grows with the increase that is from God. NKJV

       5. Results- How do you describe an internal satisfaction of the very purposes as to why you were created that result in joyful singing, laughter, and deep contentment? This gives you the strength to withstand any difficult moment or circumstance because you know who you are and whose you are. You have a wonderful loving Father and you are part of His global family. You have all the freedom of the Spirit, yet protected by the safety net of true and tested relationships in the Body. Growth, both personal and into His Body, is guaranteed because His love is contagious and where your feet go, all are infected and affected by it.

The early community of believers consisted of unlearned, uneducated, illiterate, poor people, made up of fishermen and slaves, with no bibles or buildings, and this is the impact they had on their generation.

Acts 17:6 “These are they who have turned the world upside down have come here too.

This brings me back to my original statement and the reason for this article. The correct assessment of the problem of “how we do church” will answer the question of why we are not having the necessary impact on our society.

1 Cor 1:26 For you see your calling, brethren, that not many wise according to the flesh, not many mighty, not many noble, are called.  27 But God has chosen the foolish things of the world to put to shame the wise, and God has chosen the weak things of the world to put to shame the things which are mighty; 28 and the base things of the world and the things which are despised God has chosen, and the things which are not, to bring to nothing the things that are, 29 that no flesh should glory in His presence NKJV

For the Love of His Name,

Jose L. Bosque with Steve Crosby & David Fredrickson

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  1. How we do church is obviously evolving. The description of the gathering is good but not quite there. The gathering must also become multidemintional. It must be a place of healing but also of strategy. It is fellowship and body life but also a sending out. A challenge to be the church in our daily lives and also a checking up on each other to make sure we are doing just that. We often use the illustration of a civil war campfire. The soldiers come into the campfire (gathering) to be renewed with food and conversation, they support each other, the medics are their for healing of wounds, they grieve the lost, then as the campfire burns down they share their victories and defeats and make a strategy for the next day. It is more about finding the strength (spurring one another one, as iron sharpens iron) to go and make disciples, breaking the curse that is seen in poverty and addiction and anger and divorce, and building the kingdom. The Church service is a place of saftey and worship and teaching but that is not enough, the meeting adds to the saftey, worship and teaching more body life and support the gathering adds even more body life and relationship maybe a bit more depth– now we must add the strategy to disciple, the accountability to build the kingdom where we live, the spurring on and the follow up, the breaking of the curse individually and in our neighborhoods and work place. Yes we are evolving and we have more work to do.